Puas yog tus dev ua txhaum

Ntau tus tswv, qhia cov dab neeg los ntawm lawv lub neej ntawm lawv cov tsiaj, hais tias nyob rau hauv ib qho xwm txheej lossis lwm tus dev tau "ua phem" los ntawm lawv. Puas yog dev ua txhaum, thiab yuav ua li cas yog tias koj ua phem rau tus tsiaj?

Cov dev puas ua phem rau?

Tib neeg yog nquag mus rau anthropomorphism, uas yog, rau humanization, attributing lawv cov kev xav thiab kev xav rau dev. Thiab qee zaum qhov no yog qhov phem rau tsiaj, xws li nyob rau hauv rooj plaub ntawm kev ua txhaum rau tus dev. Qhov uas nws tsis paub, thiab qhov uas peb twb tau sau txog.

Tsuas yog kev tshawb fawb tuaj yeem teb cov lus nug ntawm seb tus dev puas muaj qee yam kev xav. Niaj hnub no nws paub tias dev tuaj yeem ntsib ntau yam kev xav, nrog rau kev xyiv fab, kev tu siab, kev npau taws, kev qias neeg, kev ntshai… Tab sis lawv puas tuaj yeem ua rau lawv ntxhov siab? Hmoov tsis zoo, tsis muaj lus teb meej rau lo lus nug no.

Tus neeg pom dab tsi thaum nws tham txog kev ua txhaum ntawm tus dev?

Piv txwv li, nws cem tus dev, thiab nws mus rau nws qhov chaw thiab tig tawm ntawm tus tswv. Ua txhaum? Zoo li yog lawm. Tab sis qhov tseeb, feem ntau yuav, tus dev tsuas yog sim nkaum ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm tus tswv txoj kev npau taws. Txog thaum nws txias.

Los yog koj petted lwm tus dev thiab koj tus tsiaj rushed ntawm nws. Puas yog kev thuam? Hloov chaw, nws yog kev sib tw rau cov peev txheej muaj txiaj ntsig hauv daim ntawv ntawm koj (lossis dab tsi hauv koj lub hnab tshos). Thiab lub siab xav kom tshem tawm ntawm tus neeg sib tw.

Tab sis tib neeg paub qhov kev chim siab. Thiab, pom cov tshuaj tiv thaiv zoo sib xws ntawm tus tsiaj, lawv yuav xav tias txhaum. Ua txhaum!

Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj ua rau tus dev?

Yog tias koj ua phem rau ib tug phooj ywg plaub-legged thiab tsis xis nyob txog qhov no, qhov teeb meem yooj yim kho.

Koj tuaj yeem muab tus dev qhov nws xav tau tam sim no. Piv txwv li, ib lub pob lossis ib qho khoom noj qab zib. Los yog ua si kos. Thiab tus tsiaj tam sim ntawd thaws. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog ua kom muaj siab dawb paug, vim tias tus dev nyeem koj cov kev xav tam sim ntawd thiab raug heev.

Yog tias koj yuam kev los ntawm tus aub los yog yuam kev thawb nws, thiab nws poob qis thiab "ua txhaum" (tom qab tag nrho, nws tsis muaj dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm, thiab koj mam li pom "kev ua phem"), koj tuaj yeem thov txim rau nws. Tus tsiaj, hais tias txhua yam zoo thiab koj tsis xav tau. Yog tias koj muaj kev sib raug zoo, tus dev yuav nkag siab qhov no thiab yuav tsis "ua rau koj chim siab".